Ncmo's

NCMO's


For those who are not familiar with the term "NCMO" quite yet, well it's time to get familiar because you will hear the term very often! NCMO stands for Non Committal make out aka just making out with a guy even though you aren't dating.


How to tell of a guy really likes you
-do not kiss him until the third date. If he really likes you he'll respect that and work hard for the kiss. if he's just in it for the action he'll give up and find a girl who will give him what he wants


-of course physical attraction is important but if all you do is kiss it could be a red flag. A good tip I've heard is try going a week without kissing. If you still love spending time with each other great! If not it's time to reevaluate


-does he incorporate you into his life? If he's not introducing you to his family and friends he's not planning on you staying in his life.


-Ncmo's don't seem like a big deal but life is so much better without them. I don't think it makes you a bad person. I just think it creates so many problems AND lowers your self esteem. Living in Provo you see the same people over and over. I've ruined many great potential friendships by kissing the guy and it not working out.


-so say you're with a guy and you know what's coming next. Here's some ideas to avoid kissing. Remember the longer you make the guy wait the more he wants it! (within reason; wait weeks not years!)
*dont watch movies!
*dont hang out past 12
*dont be alone
*keep distance


-Don't let the guy run your life! Be the one that is hard to hang out with, but dont be so unavailable that he just stops trying!  Being ready to hang out with him 24/7 makes him know he can just call you when he "wants some."  Make him realize you are more than just a girl to kiss.  I know that when I have not been available every time whenever HE wants to hang out that I have found better success with a relationship rather than just being the "NCMO girl."


-honestly the best advice I can give is to use your intuition. I'm a big believer of gut feelings and always following them. You know what's best for you. You can ALWAYS tell if you're not being treated right, it's just so easy to justify everything. If something about the guys doesn't sit right with you don't brush it off. Bette to be alone then in bad company! Life's too short to spend time with people who don't see your worth and you deserve the best!